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  1. Babs
    March 28, 2017 @ 7:43 pm

    😊
    Nice “very important indeed”

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  2. Loftspeaker1
    March 28, 2017 @ 8:43 pm

    I believe that people who are going to be married should never keep secrets. If a great marriage is hoped for, both parties need to be completely open and honest before the marriage begins.
    Take a look at my blog for Christian couples
    http://www.loftforum.wordpress.com

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    • somicharles
      March 29, 2017 @ 11:04 pm

      Absolutely. Couples should be open with each other and not wait till marriage to reveal certain things. Thank you.

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  3. Anonymous
    March 28, 2017 @ 10:27 pm

    Well written!

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  4. Ntor
    March 29, 2017 @ 4:04 am

    Bravo!!👏👏👏

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    • somicharles
      March 29, 2017 @ 11:05 pm

      Thank you Ntor. Glad you enjoyed it.

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  5. Consolate queen
    March 29, 2017 @ 9:19 am

    That’s really true;to know about some important details before saying yes.
    Dear sommy what can you tell us about those who are already in the relationship and yet don’t know some few details about their lover.

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    • somicharles
      March 29, 2017 @ 11:11 pm

      Hi Consolate. If you are already in a relationship, it’s never too late to ask the questions you need to ask. If there are things you are not sure about, ASK NOW before you go further into the relationship. Depending on the answers you get, you then have to decide if you want to continue with the relationship or not. DO NOT HIDE YOUR FEELINGS/WORRIES. IF THERE’S SOMETHING YOU WANT TO KNOW, GO AHEAD AND ASK.

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  6. Gbemisola
    March 29, 2017 @ 12:11 pm

    Thanks for this piece… the importance of this questions cannot be overemphasised , it’s helps avoid stories that touch. Also it’s important to be friends first before dating so we know each other better, I know being a good friend doesn’t equal being a good partner but friendship is a good foundation. Lastly, I know relationships come with compromise and sacrifices but our Godly principles are never to be compromised.

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    • somicharles
      March 29, 2017 @ 11:13 pm

      You welcome Gbemisola. Thanks so much for your contribution and yes,compromise is important but our Godly principles are never to be compromised. Thanks again.

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  7. Ceaser
    March 29, 2017 @ 4:55 pm

    Very informative write-up 👌💯👏. These questions will definitely help one to look before leaping 👍.

    I think other questions that could be asked include 1) Why he/she is into you?. Sometimes people just date for dating sake. A guy might propose to a girl based on mere recommendation or because of peer pressure, family pressure,or just because he thinks age is no longer on his side and he needs to get married.
    2) For the ladies, I think it’s necessary to know the kind of family the guy comes from. Are they God fearing?. Their opinion on polygamy and childbearing? Are they very controlling?. Can the guy be able to make decisions (good decisions) regarding his wife/fiancee without been influenced negatively?.

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    • somicharles
      March 29, 2017 @ 11:16 pm

      Thank you and I absolutely agree with your questions. It’s important to know about the family and also if he’s being pressured to date. Thank you so much.

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  8. NG
    April 11, 2017 @ 11:43 pm

    powerful stuff.

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